Can you fix a lisp when you an Adult?
Many people that we see ask us whether its too late to change their speech now they are an Adult. Adults we speak with many have low confidence because of the lisp impacting on meetings, presentations, dating and interviews. It may cause them to avoid some of these situations. Some avoid words with the /s/ sound.
Here we share a personal experience of one of our clients ; of the impact of the lisp and their experience of therapy.
Lisping is very common within adults, with varying levels of severity. Some adults who lisp are very self-conscious about it and it affects their self-esteem and confidence to speak, and impacts on their day to day life. They may place themselves under a great deal of pressure to avoid words involving /s/ and /z/ and may even avoid talking because of it. Many adults are keen to correct their speech in order to feel more confident when speaking both socially and in the workplace.
Every adult is different, and the process of therapy varies from person to person. Whilst some clients only attend a couple of sessions with an experienced Speech Therapist to learn about how to make the /s/ and /z/ sounds, others attend more sessions in order to generalize their /s/ and /z/ into their everyday speech. The initial session will inform us whether the lisp is due to your anatomy and in some instances, we may need to signpost you to other services for further investigation. Sessions cost 90 per session and most people book 1-3 sessions.
Here we share a personal experience of one of our clients in her 50s; of the impact of the lisp and their experience of therapy:
“Speech and Language Therapy might be seen as a luxury but it really shouldn't be because it's a necessity for many people like me. Communication isn't just about uttering words, but a person's ability to make others hear them and understand them. When you struggle with a lisp problem, even though you know what to say, you don't always have the confidence to speak up. As a child, I never put my hand up in school even though I had the answers because I was afraid the other children would make fun of me, which they did whenever they could to hurt my feelings. I avoided arguing with my siblings because whenever I was right, they'd resort to mimicking my lisp as a way to shut me up. I was a very bright student but I purposely sabotaged myself at some point in High School because teachers wanted me to take the lead too often, and I couldn't face people with my lisp. When it came to choosing my career path, I chose a path where I thought that people wouldn't make fun of me because of the way I pronounce my sss and zzs.
Character and personality always play a central role in personal development. Some people may be fine with a lisp and some others not. If you're someone who is uncomfortable with your lisp, then I recommend that if you're able to afford the cost, you should really reach out to the Speech Network. Alison, my therapist, has given me more than just confidence. She has also given me mind comfort - a safe place where I could simply try and see if I could speak differently. For me, it's really that - a safe place for both my mind and body to feel free to give it a try. So I gave it a try, and now, I can speak and enjoy what I sound like, and most importantly, looking at myself in the mirror, I like the way my face looks when I'm talking and my tongue remains in my mouth when I pronounce S and Z. I'm bilingual so I have to work on both languages at the same time, and I'm truly enjoying the process.”
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